Seven Years of Refining

Seven is a number woven through religion, mythology, superstition, and philosophy—each tradition giving it different meaning.

For me, as I read Unbreakable Sole, it reminded me of what I once called my "seven years of bad luck." They started with a devastating car accident that totaled my vehicle. Over those seven years, I was in five car accidents—none my fault. Some caused bodily injury, and recovery was long and painful. These accidents left me with PTSD that, even years later, still surfaces unexpectedly. I never know when it might show up.

But those seven years were nothing compared to another seven that came a few years later.

The Breaking Point
One year, I felt like I was on top of the world. Business was thriving, life was amazing, everything seemed to align perfectly. Then my world collapsed.

Theft. Betrayal. Loss. Failure. Disenchantment. Devastation.

The challenges came one after another, relentless waves that affected every part of my life—business, personal relationships, mental health, emotional well-being. I didn't know how I was going to overcome so much. I couldn't see a way through.

The Refiner's Fire
But these seven years became my refiner's fire. I was put through the highest heat, melted down, and reshaped. Now, years later, I realize how profoundly those years shaped me into a better version of myself.

I learned that mistakes are not final. That miracles occur when we least expect them. That God sends angels our way disguised as friends.

I learned that personal growth happens when we become humble enough to learn. That love and forgiveness conquer every challenge, no matter how insurmountable they seem.

Out of these refining years, I discovered more about myself—my talents, my purpose, which goes far beyond business. I found a passion for helping people, a passion for growth, a passion to create a legacy.

The Transformation
These seven years helped me focus less on myself and more on others. To learn and apply what I discovered. To look up to people instead of comparing myself to them.

I learned there are so many more people who want to help me than those who once wanted to tear me down. I learned that I can conquer and create. I learned that focusing on what truly matters in life brings genuine joy.

I wish the younger me had known the possibilities that seven years can make.

My Unbreakable Truth
So if you ask me whether I would change anything from this seven-year learning and growth experience, my answer is simple: I would not change a single thing.

The refining made me who I am today. The fire didn't destroy me—it revealed what I was truly made of.